If you had made up your mind about calling it quits and throwing in the towel whether with or without previously trying to actually go on dates with anyone then what are your reasons? Anyone undecided? But may have considered giving up on dating entirely?
Some people will laugh at us or think and call our reasons are all just a bunch of excuses blah blah. But so what even if they are excuses? Don't people have and make excuses all the time for pretty much everything?
Anyways, I figured maybe it's just really not worth my time, effort and energy anymore since I do not really feel committed wholeheartedly on it, as well as psychological issues that I have. And I have enough of other problems and serious matters to keep me occupied enough that I won't really even have the time to put in the effort into actually dating anyone.
I think once people have given up or had been single long enough then they just pretty much can't really get the motivation to really try or really do anything about their relationship status anymore.
But I think if that's the case, then we singles forever by choice/singles for life by choice should always try to focus our energy and time on everything else but relationships and dating.
I still don't believe in love, or that they say love will find you when you lease expect it.