I'll try to make a quick back story:
Years ago, I was diagnosed with a genetic condition. I had to be put on medication, and over the years I took the meds it made me gain a lot of weight. I have always eaten small portions of healthy food, and was very active (I played varisty sports, loved to hike, etc. etc.) When I started gaining weight, I increased my exercise time but I still got bigger.
I was over 300 pounds, and my bra size was a 44 DDD. I stopped taking the medicine two years ago. As of today, I lost over 180 pounds (I weigh 128 pounds at current). I now wear a 32 D bra size. Even though I put toning lotion on and do strength training, I believe the elasticity stretched so now my breasts sag.
Is this a turn off and a deal breaker? I am working really hard on maintaining a healthy life, and it's going well. My body is toned, except this area. I haven't dated in a long time, and am self concious about this if I did find a great guy, we are about to sleep together and then he sees that. Please feel free to post anonymously if you wish, but feedback would be appreciated. Thank you.
Most Helpful Guy
first of all, dont be ashamed of anything. you lost 180lbs!!! thats fucking amazing, i lost around 100lbs and it was one of the hardest things i have ever had to do. but one of the reasons people get saggy skin or excess skin is due to losing weight to quickly, they say, cuz i did my research when i was losing my weight, to avoid saggy skin during weight loss, you had loose around 50-75lbs a year. instead of doing it quickly. now back to your question about saggy boobs. some guys can't stand it, but what they dont realize is what you just went through that caused it. some guys dont mind at all. like me. honestly it is weird but knowing how hard it is to loose that much weight i wouldn't care what your breasts look like. --p. s. even what you're doing to try and perk up your breasts and using lotion, it will still take a couple years for your skin to shrink and go back to normal. but working out does help it. so congrads to you for losing 180lbs!!! that really is a feat! dont let it bother you. if they dont like your breasts then they are shallow anyway and you shouldn't be seeing people like that anyway.2
Most Helpful Girl
No. No guy (unless he's a complete and utter ass) is going to say "I can't date you because your tits sag"0