A older guy I met last year asked me out New Year's Eve, he seemed to like me but things hadn't been serious. It's been 2 wks now and I haven't heard anything from him. I texted him the day after our night out to say thanks abd that the last we have spoken. Should I send him a text to remind him of who I am or should I forget him.
The impression I get with this guy is that he wants to keep me on the string. He has already disappeared and come back a couple of times. I always know he's building up to asking me out as his texts become more frequent then as soon as we've met his no longer texts me until 2/3 weeks have passed. Is he wanting me to chase him perhaps?
It has crossed my mind that he might have problems in the trouser department. But yes I get that if he's not been in touch for 2 weeks he's not bothered
Most Helpful Guy
I think you should move on. If he can't bother to be consistent, then you shouldn't bother either.0
Most Helpful Girl
I think you could send a text just to be sure. Usually people tend to become busy again after the holidays and he might not have realized that 2 weeks have already passed. Just don't expect anything to happen because of it. It could be your last shot. If he doesn't reply or otherwise doesn't make an effort/seems disinterested, then you'll know for sure that you should just move on.0