Hi I've been dating a guy for two months. It is a more casual situation in the sense we see each other 1-2 times a week. He usually texts to set up plans with me and an occasional how are you text.
We met off a dating site. I have recently asked him if he was dating others as I wanted to be exclusive. He said he isn't, but because of his casual attitude to us I'm getting suspicious. I slept over for the full night at his house last night, he had an early start for work so left me the spare key. On making the bed there was two dark long hairs on the opposite pillow which don't belong to me, and another on the bathroom floor. It upset me as I'm scared he's sleeping with another woman, how can I approach him with this?
I told him I need to know he's not with other women and he said he doesn't owe it to me to say one way or another. I said but if I'm sleeping with you then I can't be involved knowing there might be someone else. I don't want a heavy committed relationship but I need sexual exclusivity. He said I'm the one with the insecurity
It's like he doesn't want to lie to me by saying no but then can't tell me directly cos I'd walk
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He either lied to you or at the time he said it he wasn't dating anyone else. I learned the hard way when you want to bevexclusive with someone you meed to tell them this specifically. Tell him that. Dont tell him about the hairs. Then if he says yes but you still keep finding hairs on his pillow, you know he's a lying cheater and dump his ass.1