why is it so hard to find white guys who like black girls especially in high school and if you do find one you're criticised by black males/females but usually in the black community if a guy dates a white girl he's usally praised by his "boys".. I don't know if my question made sense or not but basically what I'm asking is why don't white guys like black girls even if they are steretypical and my 2nd question is why is blackgirl/whiteguy so frowned upon for black people I've never understood that
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I am white, I prefer Asian and White women from a looks perspective. Does that mean I hate black girls? No, but it means that the women I approach are Asian or white. You see when your approaching women, you have the whole world at your feet in a sense. So I can approach whoever I want, and so if I am in a room with 10 girls I dont know at all and I have to talk to one, I will probably go talk to the most attractive since I dont know anything about the girls other then their looks. As I said, I dont think black girls are ugly, I just think whites and Asians are better looking, so they are naturally the ones I go approach first, I usually do so without even thinking about race I am just like "wow that girl is good looking I wanna talk to her". I didn't even really think about it until I read this question, but thinking back I really have talked to very few black girls in my life, not because I am racist but just because they dont stand out to me. However I can tell you how you can fix that problem right away. Ask a guy out, dont come off as arrogant, cocky, or overly confident (a lot of girls like this in guys, but guys dont really like this in girls), just strike up a nice conversation and ask the guy out for coffee. I have never been approached by a girl who had romantic interest before (in my life), so if a girl did that white, black, or whatever, I would certainly be blown away and almost definitely agree provided the girl seemed nice and didn't look hideous. Thats how you make yourself stand out, because if you are in a room with a bunch of white girls chances are the white guys will like the white girls (as to be expected), so you have to find a way to stand out when the guys are more attracted to the other types of girls, and this is one thing you can do.0
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I'm a black girl, my boyfriend is white. We habe our whole future mapped out and we are getting married. Happy ending.
The answer to your question is that it's a lot of stigmas, racial backlash, and majority white guys may feel they have nothing in common with a black female. And if some do like black girl, they may be too scared or uncomfortable about it because of negative stigmas and such.
But if there's communication and understanding then, the relationship is just like any other, or maybe even better. But they won't know that unless they give it a try. Just depends is all. :)1