I had a fabulous first date with a guy I met online. We talked often for a few months before meeting up in real life. To be honest, he wasn't high on my priority list, so I didn't make time.
Fast forward- we met and I can't explain the immediate attraction I felt when I met him. Like bam! It was unexpected because I didn't have high hopes for the date originally. As the night went on and on, i felt like everything I was looking for was right here all along.
We laughed, played, talked, had so many ridiculously crazy things in common... I was happy. He invited me back to his place to play a card game I was telling him about. I didn't want the night to end, loved being with him so I said absolutely.
His place was more of the same, laughing, talking, teasing. He was a perfect gentleman the entire night. I'm looking at this guy while asking myself why on earth I waited so long to go out with him. Then I went all weird. In less than 3 minutes... I got really nervous out of no where, told him I had a great time, but it was time for me to go (out of no where,) stood up, got my keys, and he started to walk me to the door... my heart was basically beating out of my chest, and I said goodbye and closed the door on him. Like in his face. I DO NOT know what came over me or why I did that. No clue. I'm a public speaker, so I'm very rarely nervous. I've been on plenty of first dates. This has never happened. I didn't even understand why I was acting the way I did at the end.
He texted that he hoped I made it home safe. I didn't reply bc I was still in flight mode. The next day I finally mustered the nerve to explain myself and texted him an apology stating that I was sorry for the way I ended our date and that I just got really nervous and ran. Told him I'd enjoy seeing him again if I didn't scare him off. He replied that I didn't scare him away and he was glad I explained myself because he was confused as to why I closed the door on him.
i don't want to text any further because I don't want to add to the crazy. What can I do?
Guys, would you give me another chance? I really liked him. I just freaked. Out of no where.
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I think I would since we built up so much over the months through convo and then finally meeting. Even though that ending would have put me off a lot. I'm sure you have to make it up to me by being a fun date from start to finish next time while adding a nice hug and a kiss or two at the end.0