I met a guy online 2 months ago, we had an instant connection and our relationship moved really fast. He asked me to be his girlfriend last month and said that he's ready to settle down and hasn't felt a connection like this for years, he told me he doesn't talk to any other girls and has taken down his dating profile. I really like him and feel like he genuinely liked me however I went online with a fake profile to check if he's being honest and I noticed that although he's taken his pictures down he is still active and last logged in on Saturday. I feel really hurt because the fact he's still looking means I'm obviously not the one, despite him saying he feels I am. I really feel confused, should I confront him or cut my loses?
Guy I met online asked me to be exclusive but is still secretly online dating should I dump him?
What Guys Said 1
confront him. Don't like his answer? Cut your loses1
What Girls Said 3
I would just cut him out. Who knows whether or not he's using the same lines he used for you on other girls as well. Whether or not he is talking to other girls, if he told you he deleted his profile and he didn't that's still lying and that's definitely not a good way to start a relationship, especially if he's supposedly ready to settle down.1
Wahhaha... another gold digger hustler...0
Similar happened with me. He says that online he does not talk to other girls but I found that he flirts and have affairs with so many girls online and he always flirts with girls on social networking sites and even he calls them to meet him and have sex with him and to be in relationship with me and to me he always said that he loves only me and always said that he can not ever even look at any girl of the universe except me, can not even think about any other girl and said that I'm his first and last and he always said that he consider every girl his sister but he just betrayed me, lied to me and always just pretended that he loves me and just used me and not only me it seems that he also betrayed other girls as well. I'm really absolutely broken and I have not any strength to be alive anymore. I am badly depressed and feeling suicidal :'(1
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