Afraid? No I am not afraid, I don't want to fall in love, I will never fall in love. I am a very logical and a realistic person so I am also totally incapable of falling in love. It can never happen like that and I won't allow that to happen also. I also don't believe in the sentence that " Love is blind", that itself sounds illogical and stupid to me, I mean the sentence is stupid. For me "Love" is a choice, a decision and not something that just happens
I know that love is a beautiful feeling. Yes, I do believe in love, true love but I never want to be in love, by choice. It my decision. Why? that's hard to explain, so please don't ask.
Yes, I do have a fear but that's different, which is like this:
1. I know for sure that I will never be in love, I will never fall in love but it's possible that one day a woman can like me or even love me so much so that I would mean the world to her and that is exactly what I never want, but that's what I am afraid will happen. This is my fear and not the one that you had asked in your question.
Hence it's possible that a woman can love me some day but I can never be in love with a woman, I will never be in love, hence it will never happen from my end. Never means never!!.
Love is amazing, and I wish I could feel it again. Love infuses new life into a dormant shell of a human being, and it's a high that thankfully have not be replaced by drugs and alcohol, my only saving grace.
I've become too deeply grounded in reality to ever soar in love's bliss. I'm just not good enough, factually speaking. My income, my body, my looks, my experience. Everything fails. I don't deserve it. Yet, I know that love is the only way to fix this.
What's to fear? Love is just a feeling two people get when they want to reproduce, and is nothing short of just a bit more powerful feeling of care, like you feel with a pet, child, or favourite blanket.
I fear what people expect from love, like marriage and all that, but I don't fear the feeling itself, since it's just me wanting to fuck and protect a chick.
YES... I'm actually in my first relationship right now with this amazing guy like I never thought I would find someone so sweet and thoughtful in high school. Have you ever seen those truth or dares on the back of gum wrappers? They are so dumb, but he asked me the dare and it was to write him a love letter. So we wrote each other love letters and at the end of his very sweet letter, he wrote me, "te quiero," which is I love you in Spanish. (He is Mexican) I get such butterflies thinking about it. Of course I wrote a sarcastic letter like an idiot LMAO. After I read it I thanked him and kissed him but I haven't actually said it back to him which is so stupid. I've never felt like this before and it honestly scares me. Once I say it, its so real. I'm very headstrong and independent and I almost feel weak to officially give this power. All of my female role models in my life have been heart broken and devastated and I'm been that persons shoulder to cry numerous times and I'm scared that will be me. I also subconsciously know once I say it, it wouldn't be long till he asks to take my virginity which I shouldn't worry about because that is two different discussions but I think its another reason that holds me back from falling in love. Basically, I never thought falling in love would be scary until it happened to me. I know I have to say it back and I feel better writing this and not bottling it up anymore so thanks for this post!
I am not. Although I know how bad the pain is when I get heartbroken, I know I will be hurt many many times, I am not afraid of falling in love. Just like breast feeding or anger, falling in love is natural. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I am sensitive but I will be able to pull through no matter what happens. Why would I be afraid to fall in love when all it does is bring new experiences and expands my horizon of thinking?
Not afraid of falling in love. Just afraid to get my heart broken once I'm in that stage. As it's unpredictable where things can may lead to. I would like stability in a relationship, and I would like to feel reassured that it will remain that way. I'm someone who definitely wants a long term relationship. I've always wanted that to begin with anyways.
Yes, I'm scared, I don't want to get hurt, love sucks pretty bad when it is one sided
Yeah. My parents failed relationship and most I see around me make me feel like someone wouldn't possibly love me for forever. Dont get me wrong my parents have a friendly relationship because of my brother and me. I am afraid that i feel so deep in love I will marry the wrong guy I dont know all of these are stupid things I think about. Sometimes I wish someone could love me just the way I am. And I know he would be a great support for me.