If you and a person got along well and you liked talking with them and they're nice and stuff but you're not physically attracted to them at all not even 1% would you still date that person? Why or why not? Because this guy said he likes me and I mean he's nice and stuff but I'm not physically attracted to him at all so I told him we could only be friends and he got mad so we stopped talking, am I being mean or something or is it reasonable?
Yes I would date them if I'm not physically attracted to them
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No I wouldn't date them if there was no physical attraction
Anyone is going to get upset when they are turned down. Especially if things were going well. Male, female, ugly, hot. If they like someone and want something from it, then are turned down, it's an upsetting thing.
But no. I wouldn't date someone I wasn't attracted to. That sorta defeats the entire purpose.
Wow. The male and female ratios are almost identical. Yes: 6/6 No: 26/25
If I'm not physically attracted to him, then I don't think I could sustain a healthy relationship with him. While I would be content with his personality, my mind would wander elsewhere when it came to the physical aspect. I wouldn't want to be unfair to him like that.
Why would you date someone if there is not a physical attraction? I certainly wouldn't marry her or even want to have sex with her. Why would I make her think that I am interested if I am not? Isn't that just cruel?
Physical attraction is important for any relationship. It's healthy and normal. I've tried dating guys I didn't feel that spark with before and it has never ever worked out good. You deserve someone who gives you butterflies. Don't sell yourself short.
Hell no. At least SOME physical attraction is essential to have a long-lasting happy relationship. It's also not fair to the other person. Everyone deserves to be with someone who can't take their eyes off them.
No I would not. I've tried that before, he wasn't ugly or anything I just wasn't attracted to him at all. It made me not want to be physical or affectionate with him, which essentially meant I neglected him and our relationship which did not turn out good.
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