many many years ago, I had a huge infatuation on a guy who worked in the same building as me, but different company. I wanted to ask him out on a date, but didn't make much money so didn't feel like I could afford it and figured inviting him over for dinner would be much more doable. I told a friend I was thinking of inviting him to dinner, asked advice on how to go about it, but she discouraged me, because "that would be desperate".
I would never even think to do this now, not because I think it's at all desperate, but because it isn't really safe. but I was randomly thinking about dates I've been on in the past and he popped in my head. so, I'm curious how a guy would even react to someone they talk to every now and then, but don't really know, inviting him to their home for dinner?
Of course it facilitates seduction to happen cause you both are in an isolated place. It may be a good idea, but depends on what type of guy you're dealing with. If he's handsome at outside, but inside... he's a psycho then you're in deep... deep trouble lol
She wanted to get laid would be my first thought that comes in mind, but I wouldn't complain on the free dinner that comes with it and if I am physically attracted to her.
Anyway, you mentioned that he popped in your head as you reminisced. Have you seen him, or looked him up recently out of curiosity? Sorry for being random, thought you might want to ask him out for a coffee and share this cute story with him lol