- Women would be forced to send a first message to menVote A
- Communication would cease and the entire dating site industry would collapseVote B
You guys are absolutely ridiculous.
The industry would not fail. There would be enough women that would message first. It's not such a rare thing.
Just because they haven't messaged YOU first doesn't mean they haven't messaged someone else first.
I will message someone first that interests me. If they do not have a fleshed out profile, which most don't, or if their profile makes them seem like someone I'm not interested in, I'm obviously not going to message that person. Now, if that same person were to message me first, I would probably send a few messages back and forth to see if we "click", but otherwise I'm not going to waste my time messaging every single guy first. If you don't catch my attention, I'm not going to message you.
Whereas it seems like most (not all) guys go "oh hot picture? message!". They don't even read the profile (from my experience). They just see a picture and try to talk to you even if you're not compatible at all. Then those same people go off and cry about how girls don't message first, blah blah blah. And the funny thing is, I bet there have been girls that have messaged you (the person who makes that claim) that were not attractive so you just brushed them aside and forgot about them.
And, as a side note, I've always heard complaints about how women always message "hot" guys and how "hot" guys inboxes are flooded with girls wanting to meet him. So, perhaps you aren't very hot? Clearly that shows that women DO message first.
However, that's not what I do. I can't speak for all women, of course, but I only base my first messages on people that have a striking personality that stand out from the rest.
I voted B - the industry would fall apart. Option A wouldn't happen because women would just revert back to dating in real life, going to bars and waiting for men to approach or compliment them. ... hey, that's kind of the same thing that happens online, fancy that.
There would be a drastic reduction in interaction on such sites.
I think A is the more likely scenario
I've only get ONE initiated message from a girl TINDER and it went no where, after she said she will get back to me cause gonna go to sleep
the industry would take a huge hit
Well it would get a lot of women off their high horses and they would either have to contact men or go out dating in the real world. It's a shame that men are so weak and pathetic to give women so much attention on dating sites.
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