Geek, gamer, nerd, non-charismatic.
He's all of the above and not exactly a passionate person. Occasionally grabs my arse and gives me a kiss but that's it.
I don't know if he likes me as a friend for playing his games with him or likes me as a girlfriend.
How do guys show they appreciate their gfs?
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According to Dr. Gary D. Chapman there are 5 main love languages:
- Words of Affirmation
- Acts of Service
- Quality Time
- Physical Touch
There is a little quiz you can take at:
It is important to note that everyone values these things differently. While he may think he's showing you as much love as he can, if it isn't the way you perceive love it might not register right and vice versa.
From what you said if he likes playing games with you, that could be considered spending "quality time" or recreational activities and that's how he could feel he shows his appreciation for you.
Either way, whatever it is, it's better that you figure out what your love language is, and his, so that y'all can show each other how much you appreciate each other in the way that is best suited for them.0