For wanting a attractive girlfriend
Am I a bad person?
What Girls Said 19
Not at all. You need to be physically attracted to someone to have a relationship with them. Yes personality counts too but if you weren't physically attracted to them you'd just be friends- And we all have a different idea of what we find physically attractive! Usually when I show people a picture of my boyfriend they're like "Yeah he's okay", "He's alright" But I think he's cute.
We can't control who we find attractive, it just happens, it's human nature. absolutely nothing to feel bad about.
I used to be close friends with a nice guy I got on well with and people said we should go out but I just didn't find him physically attractive.
Then I became friends with another nice guy I got on well with, and who I found physically attractive and now we are boyfriend and girlfriend.0
Am I a bad person?
Not in my opinion as I find most males want an attractive partner above all else regardless of what he himself looks like.
I think one may be considered a 'bad person' if they insult, degrade, and rant about gals being shallow while he himself wants an attractive gal. Or if he is hypocritical and wants gals to give him a chance or see past his weight/ugliness/baldness/height while himself wants an attractive gal.0
Nope go cry me a river.0
That's what everyone wants! Physical attraction is required for a relationship being able to work. If you reject someone because you don't find them attractive, it's ok, that's a very reasonable reason. If you don't feel attracted, maybe other person will. Attraction is subjective.0
No that's okay but if that's all you like about a girl then yes. And if you'd ever dump your girlfriend because you found someone prettier that is interested in you, double yes.0
Nope. I just had this conversation with my boyfriend the other day, I'm also a really blunt person though so I don't know if it's rude or not haha; but I told him I don't think I could be with someone that wasn't good looking. (As I told him how good looking he is lol) I don't feel shallow about it, because it's kind of hard to be with someone and see them everyday when you don't find hem attractive.. That's the way I look at it anyway. But everybody is attractive to somebody! I could think someone is butt face ugly and another girl could think he is the best looking man in the world. Just remember that lol.0
no i wouldn't say bad j once you like a person for who they are you will see them attractive in the outside .. meant girl once you like a girl or a guy you ae interested in0
It's more of you want a girl who you are physically attracted to. And your preference is the "really pretty" type.0
being sexually attracted to someone is important in a relationship I don't blame you for wanting that0
Not necessarily... now if you "only date hot chicks" or whatever and not give other girl a chance just because they're not attractive then that's shallow0
Lol no. You have to be attracted to the girl you're dating on some level0
Of course not.0
Well no... but are you good looking too?0
Nah, physical attraction is important in a relationship.0
Nah, but make sure you look for personality as well as looks.0
Honestly if anyone said they don't care about what their date looks like they are lying. Everyone has a different view of what they find "Attractive" so it doesn't make you a bad person.0
no, ofcoarse not0
What Guys Said 15
I would be more afraid of the guy who wants an unattractive girlfriend (as in a girl *he's* not attracted to whatsoever).
Only thing is that young guys tend to idolize like the most popular and attractive girls, like the prom queen, e. g. That's not a good way to get a date to set your sniper rifle sights on one girl, and especially not one so widely sought-out. That is, unless you're like the prom king.
So it's kind of bad to say, but I think there's like a ladder you have to climb if you want to have a chance to date the most beautiful women. They'll have a lot of suitors all the time. You have to be able to look at yourself and find a way to be more charming and appealing than them, and that's not an easy thing to do unless you've been with some women, know how to be confident, treat the opposite sex as fellow humans and not goddesses to drool over, etc.
It's better if you're just looking for a reasobly-attractive girlfriend to start. You might even end up falling madly in love with her even if she doesn't look like a supermodel. If not, and things don't work out, you'll be better equipped to try to approach a supermodel.0
Why would you think or feel that you are a bad person for wanting an attractive girlfriend?
You can't really change how you feel or think about what you want. If you feel that is what you like or want then that's what you desire, how would that be wrong or make you a bad person? If I remember correctly, attraction is NOT a choice.
Really, why would you even worry or care whom or what others think or judge you for this?0
You're a bad person to the degree too which you harm your girlfriend by leading her on.
If you intend to be with her but you have this desire that you do not act upon, and you continue to treat her well and respectfully then there's no harm and no evil.
If you treat her disrespectfully or intend to dump her when someone better comes along, then you are acting with evil intent.1
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'attractive ' can mean so many different things. Everyone prefers the girl to who he's attracted.0
Everyone wants attractive partners.0
No you are a normal person.0
Not at all. It's a very natural thing and being attracted to someone is a big part of a relationship. ;)0
No, hardly. I assure you that you are being judged by her.1
naw, gotta be attracted to someone. tho dont get with someone just because your friends think they look good.0
If you have to ask...0
no, it's normal.0
It depends what you find attractive. If you have unrealistic expectations, then you should think about it.0
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