Hi everyone! I am an Indian guy who started dating a White girl in college. I study Computer Science and she is in nursing. We study and go out together. I commute (but i am working to pay for dorms for the next few years) and sometimes stay in her dorm. my parents flipped when they found out about her. they say that I should focus on my studies THEN get a girlfriend (and marry her). I have actually got much better grades by studying with her, and have made more friends and have even got more fit. my dad does not object much (mostly due to work interfering with his time to talk to me), so it is mostly my mom. She even dislikes that my girlfriend is White (brunette). she thinks my girlfriend may be slutty, but I'm the first boyfriend and guy she slept with and dated.
my girlfriend is frustrated with my parents. i told her that i would be the happiest person if my mom died and my girlfriend freaked out and screamed.
what the FUCK do I do?
Most Helpful Girl
Sounds like a keeper. Doesn't matter what your parents think. It's YOUR life.0
Most Helpful Guy
Cross cultureal marriages fail more often than same culture marriages for obvious reasons. you are seeing it in th early stages. Your girlfriend and mom will resent each other and the problems will be longterm especially when it come to raising kids, your wife will not be happy and it will be bad.0