So far we've been bowling, to an arcade, to the movies and his house. On the last date he cooked for me. All dates were organised /suggested by him. Now it's my turn, any ideas? My house is off limits.
Go for a drive, certainly there are some pretty drives near your city. If you don't have a car, try coffee or tea house hopping (make a list of local tea or coffee shops, and go and get a small drink go to the next one and at the end compare and contrast.