I would never want to date a woman that I thought of as ugly, much less be in a relationship with someone that I am not attracted to. Sorry, but any girl I am not attracted to is only friend material. At least the attractive girl with a bad personality could interest me in the short term before I got sick of her attitude.
Your choices in reality are two from the following three: hot, smart and sane.
Go for smart and sane. They last a lot longer.
B. at least I'm getting great sex from using her body.
If your ugly. Go to the gym get healthy! Become happy! It will make your skin glow. Your face will look better as it is slimmer and follow what your passionate about. This will give you a personality that's worth dating. Do not just accept i am ugly. You can honestly change that. And to answer your personality i would Date a pretty girl with and amazing personality. No less ! So if i found my self at a place where these are my options then i will look somewhere else.