I met this guy last Friday night and things went really well. He walked me home and we kissed for a little bit. He added me on Facebook the next day and texted me that night to see what I was up to and for me to meet him at one of the bars. I wasn't able to do anything with him because I was with my friends. I texted him back saying I couldn't make it and I never heard a response back. I really did like him but I don't want to just "hook up" if that's what he wants. It's already been a few days and I still haven't heard from him. Am I the one that needs to make a move and make contact? Or has he just lost interest?
Well, we are now going on a date later. :)
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Well if you texted him to say you could not make it, did you explain it? If you did and he has not answered then he might of wanted to "just hook" up like you said. Now if you did NOT put an explanation then he might think you are not interested. When you first meet someone you look for signs to see if they are interested. By you right away not being able to make it because of your friends is not a good sign to him. He might of told his buddies that he met this girl and invited her to come and then you shoot him down and guess what, guys will be guys and make fun of him. There are so many situations that could of happened to try to explain why he has not written back. If you really like the guy then my advice to you is to throw a simple little text like, "haven't heard from u, been thinking about u" and see where the converstation leads. He might just open up at that time. Good luck.2