** By the way people i am talking about men and women who date that are over 25**
1. Have to to actively pursue and create well crafted messages on online dating sites.
2. Have to keep the lady interested by messaging her often and trying to impress her.
3. Go through all the touble to ensure he manages to get a date and doesn't make a mistake of putting
4. Go through countless rejections.
5. Put into the friendzone after going through all the trouble of impressing her and getting her on dates.
1. Just have to filter messages than come to her on online dating sites.
2. Have many options becasue they will always have so many men chasing her that she can take her time to decide which one she wants.
3. Does not need to put much effort in trying to keep the man interested or impress him untill she meets him in person.
4. Has full control on when sex happens.
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1. Women must respond to messages from numerous guys who are jerks.
2. If a man isn't interested in a woman, he simply doesn't message her. Simple. If a woman is not interested in a guy, she must send him a "no thanks" message and then deal with his hostility.
3. Women must immediately start trying to decode a guy's profile and messages to determine whether he is just interested in getting laid.
4. You don't exert any control over when you have sex?
5. A woman must patiently sit and wait to be contacted. If she contacts guys, they may think she is being very forward and that means she is "easy."
It is not easy for anyone.5