I'm really into this guy who plays in a band at a local bar I go to. I'm 21 and he's in his late 40s. The last time I went we were making eye contact and I swear I felt like he might be interested. The problem is I've never approached an older man in this way before. Should I approach him or wait and see if he'll approach me? What should I talk about? I'm not worried about being taken advantage of because id be fine with a one night stand. I just don't know how to get things flowing.
Most Helpful Guy
Just be yourself and talk to the guy. I think that it is a good thing that you want to talk to him but just let the conversation flow and see where it goes from there.0
Most Helpful Girl
Just talk to him like you would a guy your age.
Stop acknowledging the fact that there is a huge age difference.
When you do, and enjoy the conversation for what it is, things will flow so much easier.
Worrying about the age, will allow you to overthink and freeze up.
Just walk over to him, greet him, smile and show flirty actions.1