Im not sure how old this post is but I've gone through the same thing. You may have done something, but it also may not be related to you at all. My girlfriend lived in California. One day she decided she was headed down hill there so she packed up and her and her son moved all the way across the country to live with her grandparents and to go to school. She left all her friends and family back in Cali. She quickly found out that it wasn't going to be as easy as she thought. We actually met at school. The first few months were great, but then reality set in about her move and things got rough. She became numb. She still hasn't completely adapted but she's trying. I suggest if you really care for her, you show her by continuing to support her and just be very understanding. there's gonna be times when she is going to need her space, give it to her. Dont lose hope. Dont try to fix her, just be there to listen when she starts to vent. If you can stick it out, then there is hope itll work out
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She's going through her own shit there's nothing you can do, wait it out and if it doesn't get better it'll prolly be over I'm afraid.
Okay, you're going through a tough time but you never hurt her? I sincerely doubt that, no offence.
Chances are she is either having interpersonal issues, you had done something you didn't realize, etc. I say just try to talk to her and ask her what is triggering all of this and what she wants to do to fix it.
She feels she has to put her heart in a locked cage in the closet, to gain perspective on the relationship mentally. Once all the "love" emotions are out of the picture, a person isn't blocked by trees but on the mountain looking down.
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She's emotionally drained.
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