My first boyfriend, but not into him super sexually? Help?

He's my first boyfriend and I like him. We've started dating a couple weeks ago. He's handsome, sweet, and really cares about me. I love to kiss and cuddle with him. I don't however exactly have the want or dream about sex or other stuff with him yet though. Is this normal not to be feeling those feelings for him yet? Or do I not like him?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Yes it's normal... its your first boyfriend and also you might need some time before having sex.. So yes it's normal

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Are you a virgin?

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    • yeah he's my first boyfriend and firsts for a lot of things just not sex

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What Girls Said 3

  • Maybe you're just not ready for things to progress at this point which is totally normal at your age. I wouldn't worry about it. If you enjoy kissing and cuddling then it's a indication that you have attraction towards him.

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  • You've only been seeing each other for a couple of weeks so yes that is normal. I didn't even kiss my boyfriend until we had been seeing each other for 3 months.

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  • You don't need sex right now. It's totally fine that you don't want to do that stuff yet.

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