i went on a date with a guy and I think it went really well. We talked for hours. I ended up sleeping with him though.
The next day I was waiting for him to text me but he hadn't so I texted him. He Replied to me though fairly quickly. He texted me the next day but only because I told him to send me something which he did. Later in the day I texted him again to check up on him since I knew he had something big going on. He replied to me and not just a one-liner text, he put effort into it. It was about 5 lines. I told him though we need to get together again. On the date though keep in mind we had talked about getting together again. His reply to that text was "yes we should :)" I suggested a day during the week and he said he'll need to make sure he's free.
So I don't know if he is interested in me or not? I'm having a hard time reading this guy. If he wanted it to be a 1 time deal he can just ignore my texts completely. He can just ignore me altogether too because we have no friends in common at all. What do you think?
Most Helpful Guy
You could really be jumping the gun. Based on what you said he texted about getting together again he needs to check his schedule. The ball is in his court to let you know. If he doesn't, move on, but I wouldn't assume right off that he won't. You painted him as somewhat busy at the moment and he's responsive. Give him time to follow through or you may come off as needy and clingy.1
Most Helpful Girl
I think you probably shouldn't of gave it up to him, so soon. On the first date more or less.. :-\ Now he doesn't have anything to look forward to. You just gave him everything on one day. Like take it or leave it... He took it alright... Now he's going to leave it.. Sucks. Wish some guys didn't take advantage like that, but hey you were willing. I mean who will you respect more, a chick in a mini skirt so short u can see her vag, and tits all hanging out. Or the woman with a t- shirt and jeans. Same goes with sex... sorry.
If he wanted to spend time with you, he would.. "checking my schedule is a clear cut... Nice guy sign of NO". He most likely just doesn't want to hurt your feelings.0