what is a decent and sober way to propose a girl?
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Dude, honestly, I think most women would be relieved if you didn't make a huge production of it. Ever notice, when you watch those videos, the women tend to seem more shellshocked than anything else?
Big UNANTICIPATED production is really really not a good idea, unless yr girl is the type who LOVES random attention from strangers. If she is anything short of that, honestly, she'll probably spend the whole time secretly waiting for the audience (and, heaven forbid, the cameras) to disappear.
Yes, most women love weddings, but that's a big PLANNED production. Planned for months and months and months. You see the diff, right? (:
Srsly, you can't go wrong with just going somewhere quiet, sitting down with her, and giving her a nice surprise. Which shouldn't be a surprise at all, if you've been doing this the right way.
Oh, and, for the love of sweet Jesus Christ child, DO NOT take a knee.
That's a sign of submission. She either (1) won't care, or (2) won't like it, on at least a subconscious level.
Honestly, with most women it will largely be neither here nor there. Few care about that stuff as much as I do (OMG dealbreaker here). But, it's almost impossible for that to GAIN you points.1