I was seeing a guy back in November, we had a falling out, as we were long distance, I had gone to see him, but he was out with his friend, I was a bit hurt, as was feeling few days later, I said if he didn't come to meet me, there wouldn't be a next time, I didn't get a reply, I apolgised couple of days later, never heard from him.
A couple of days ago I recieved a message via facebook, saying it was him, and his phone number, and add me on whatsapp, I messaged him said, what do you want he replied said he missed and wanted to know how I was, I sent another message, said if you missed me why did you only just message me now, I recieved another message from him saying, I Really miss you, i just have some doubts and fear, i have lots of questions, but first do you still care about me, he then went onto saying, what do you want me to be or do, want to make it right, do you think our relationship will work, is it serious, you think about marriage or fun.
What are your thoughts
Today I Went on facebook , thought I Would have a look if the guy had put anything on his page, there i a girl who is friends with him, she had updated her profile pic, and I Noticed their was a comment wrote by him on her photo saying, hell yeah looking pretty rockstar, she replied saying thank you my lovely, should i be worried, if it normal to make that sort of comment?
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It seems to me that he's full of doubt and confusion about how you really feel about him, and your intentions. There seems to be a lack of communication , because neither of you seem to know what to expect from each other, or what each other truly wants.
To make it work you both need to have a serious talk about where you stand with one another If you don't you'll both become very guarded , because you'll both end up feeling emotionally unsafe. Fear of being hurt or rejected will start to prevent the relationship moving forward 💗😊0