The last dude I dated used to model, now he's trying to be producer and he was very attractive, but he was so arrogant and full of himself and just had a really crappy personality in the long run. We would actually get into arguments about the guys I dated because he said they were all "ugly" and that I was too pretty for them but it's not always about looks. If a guy is confident and funny I'm more likely to develop feelings. My suggestion is fake it until you make it.
"If you found me attractive then I'd be confident. If I was confident then you'd find me attractive"
Ah the catch-22. The endless cycle of heartache, frustration, and confusion.
Girls want a guy who's confident despite his looks and how others may view him. A confident man doesn't derive his confidence externally. He does so from within. Girls pick up on this and begin finding him attractive. The onus is on you to break the catch-22 because you can't rely on girls to do it for you. You'll wind up disappointed if you believe otherwise.
true self confidence and security is found from within. if you need others to gratify you and boost your confidence then you are actually extremely insecure. When girls say confidence is attractive they actually mean security
Confidence comes from inside you. You have to find it inside you. You can't seek confidence from others. Confidence is being indifferent to whether a girl likes you or not. It won't make you less of a person either way. "Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence" Read that over and over. Understand it fully.
Build yourself and your self esteem will follow fuck what they think u won't die without a girlfriend bro.."if u build it they will come" lol get $$$ that's the quickest remedy to ur afflictions with the ladies idc if ur the most attractive dude in the world, if ur broke it won't last.