I really want to have one partner. Ever since my first boyfriend in high school broke my heart I haven't had a proper relationship. I only like to get guys to the point of really liking or loving me, then I get bored and look for someone else. Like, all the passion goes and everything they do starts to irritate me to the point I can't stand them and think that I can do better and that's when I leave. Does anyone feel or have felt like this and what can I do to change myself? I'm getting old and I want to start a family.
Now to add my friends do tell me it's because I was scarred by my first boyfriend but I don't feel like that we eventually left in good terms and its been 7 years for God's sake.
Most Helpful Guy
I think you just haven't met the right guy yet, the one who'll make you WANT to stay with him. Either that, or you compare everyone you date with your first boyfriend, and then dump them because of your preconceived notion that they can never be as good as him.
If it's the latter, then you are not ready to date yet, and like your friends said, you have a lot of soul searching to do.0
Most Helpful Girl
Because you're afraid another one won't come along.0