My girlfriend is 28 and I sometimes get uncomfortable with the way she dresses, her profile
pic on Instagram is pretty much just a smile and her cleavage, and she posts pics of her in like a thong like bikini on the beach, am I justified in feeling informant me or is this just the norm and not a big deal?
- justifiedVote A
- OverreactingVote B
Most Helpful Girl
Nowadays, I notice women post sexually explicit photos of themselves because they like to seek validation from others.
It's almost as if it's not enough anymore to hear from your husband or boyfriend that you're sexy.
They need to hear it from EVERYONE so those are the only images they put out.
I feel like only insecure people put only "one type" of photos of themselves out, because clearly they are only looking for a certain type of reaction to themselves.
Whereas real life, those comments are usually more balanced because people are seeing this person in different forms and not in just a sexual light.
Your girlfriend is a grown woman and will do what she pleases. I know this makes you uncomfortable.
You should voice your concerns to her.
I wouldn't expect her to stop, but at least now she will know how you feel about it.1
Most Helpful Guy
Was she like this when you first started dating her or is this a new change?0