So I've noticed that in my grade all the guys who plan on joining the military can't get girlfriends, this includes me. It seems like someone will like me, find out I'm going to be a Marine, and then just give up. What's up with this?
At 13 most girls are just fickle still. My husband is in the military. Up until him I never wanted to be with someone in the military. When it comes time to start your military career you'll find someone. It takes a special woman to be a military girlfriend/wife. A lot of women can't be separated for long periods of time from who they love. Also it's a dangerous job. The military is your number one not your wife. They own you. It's harder on a girlfriend than a wife. There is plenty more that can scare girls way from this life style but be assured that there will be a lot of women that will want you.
Perhaps Knowing that their Future Military Man is going away any day, it doesn't sound like A... Steady Eddy. This can be a Turn of for Any girl to think that a LDR with a Great guy can end up A... No Try. Don't say anything right away today, let Them get to know You First before The.. Burst. Good luck. xx
I wouldn't say not like them, just not enjoy the fact that they will be gone for so long and the if they get injured factor. Chick's are extremely emotional so expect tears and argument's from the decision to even join in the first place. Good thing is when he or she comes back you bang like rabbits lol (I'm a creep sorry ) my friend who is going to bootcamp this yr and his heart set on making it as a Navy Seal😢😓 wants nothing but that... but I don't want him to go. Hell I don't want anyone to go, but some people have a calling soooooo whatever. But they aren't thinking about the strain this put's on their relationship's with family and friend's.
It is really hard being a military spouse and I definitely have it easy compared to most. Not everyone can handle the military life. Lots of long hours, deployments, not being able to talk about what's bothering them at work. There are also sadly a lot of people who also don't respect the military. You're also really young, so they probably don't have the maturity to respect the profession. You might not totally understand it or have unrealistic expectations about it yourself.
My boyfriend is in the military, I personally don't see anything wrong with military relationships. It will be hard to find someone because most people do not want long distance and can't be away from their partner for a long period of time.
They don't want to be away from someone they love, however on the plus side once you are out of the marine you would be every girls fantasy ;)
I think it's because there are more female pacifists out there than male pacifists.
My dad is in the military and since my mom and dad can barely see each other and he goes away for months at a time the military tore my parents up so now that I know the effect it can have I wouldn't date a guy who's going to join the military. It'll just save me heartbreak.
i was in the army for 8 years. never had any problems getting women, they love the uniform.
90% of girlfriends cheat on their guys whilst they are on ops, so be prepared for that. My girlfriend cheated when i was in afghan, and most of my mates who had girlfriends were cheated on while they were away.