So if there's a guy you know from somewhere that you get along with fairly well and you're pretty sure he's interested as well, do you ever ask them out?
I know it's a lot more common for guys to be the ones asking girls out, but out of curiosity I'm wondering if any girls are the ones who ask out?
- I always ask the guy out first11% (21)2% (3)7% (24)Vote
- I sometimes ask the guy out first but only if I'm sure he likes me36% (67)2% (4)21% (71)Vote
- I never ask out the guy first37% (69)3% (5)21% (74)Vote
- Other (explain)12% (22)0% (0)6% (22)Vote
- Results/I'm a guy4% (6)93% (149)45% (155)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
i prefer to choose that be chosen. i know why I'm asking. i don't know his intention, and often guys don't know why they want, or they pretend to want something they don't want, or not want something they do want. I'm just very down to earth and honest about my intentions and interests. i am careful to know exactly why I'm doing things before i do them. I do not find this to be the case with most guys. Anyhow i enjoy the feeling of going after what i want. success or not. and rejection is important to live with. in many areas not just dating. I also want to bypass guys who think certain roles belong to them, and certain roles are my place. We would never get along, and Asking guys out helps me save time, bc guys who expect gender roles are turned off by my initiating.4
Most Helpful Guy
they don't need to man.
if you're over a 7.5/10+ and or wealthy, girls make it obvious they like you. they'll give you the puppy eyes, hang onto your words try to socialize with you and will even initiate contact / offer their number to you.
if they ever want to go after a guy that they really desire, they skip the games and make it 95% obvious. If the guys too stupid to realize, they'll lose interest. They'll literally wave a sign in your face in a case like that.3