Would you want a semi-serious relationship with someone who isn't emtionally available?
I want all these fuck buddy, kinda if relationship (without sex) , but I only want it for my own selfish needs and I dont feel like giving anything to the other part. For example only doing things on my terms, only contacting them if I want something or am bored or something.
For the right guy I would do anything, but unless he is pretty much perfect I know I won't make an effort. A part of me feels like it pretty normal for fwb-ish relations and another part feels like im being extremly selfish. What are your viewes on this?
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No, I'd feel like they were wasting my sweet, precious, limited, divine time. Not only that, but I'm not a therapist and I don't have the desire or interest to have to deal with someone's unchecked emotional and mental baggage. Sincerely, from the bottom of my heart: it's a pain in the azz. I would feel burdened being involved with someone like you because you can't get your chit together mentally and emotionally. So instead of functioning like a stable, healthy human being, you want to play games and use someone's body like a sexual toy for your gratification. You need someone to prove to you over and over that your fragile ass, delicate self will be okay. That's annoying. I wouldn't deal with that level of selfishness. I'd be gone like the wind.0