So, I have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years and she is the love of my life, I can't picture my life without her. but recently she has been hanging around with my best friend a lot, she went away for a week to his house (he lives in another town) and now that she's back he is staying at her house even when I leave... and when I am around neither of them really talk to me, they sing and talk to each other, am I just being paranoid or does this seem wrong to anyone else?
Yeah that is a very awkward situation to be in. It just doesn't seem right at all. It may be her way of telling you that she is ready to see other people. So you might want to consider breaking up with her.
3 years girlfriend and ur putting up with this bullshit? Stop deluding urself... if ur girlfriend gives any attention to any other guy when ur present... its a major red flag... tell her u dont like it and u won't put up with this bullshit. stand up for urself.