What does it mean when a guy says after two months of dating me that he would not want a woman that is too beautiful and too smart? He also said that such woman would leave him, because they always look for somebody better.
I was confused. Does it mean that he is settling for me because he doesn't think I'm pretty and smart enough or is he insecure about keeping me?
it doesn't sound like he's insecure. It sounds like he's just realistic about his own capabilities. I would even consider that more secure than most, in fact. Sort of like how I wouldn't want a space ship. As fun as it is to fantasize about trolling the galaxy, the fact is I wouldn't have the first clue how to operate it, let alone fix it when it breaks. It would be a sign of insecurity if I set out to prove that I could do it anyway by hijaking a space shuttle and getting myself killed because I don't know what I'm doing.