So, I'm in high school. I started dating my boyfriend about a year and a half ago, we go to different schools and live about a half hour apart. As such, the only time we really get to see each other is on the weekends. For a while, he didn't really have a solid group of friends. He's really into sports, and he plays rugby and football, so he's usually pretty busy during the week and his games are on weekends (I try to go to as many as I can). He recently became a part of a group of friends who he really likes. So now, he wants to hang out with his friends more on the weekends, and therefore won't be able to hang out with me. What I'm saying is is that he gets to see his friends at school every single day, whereas I hardly get to see him at all. What he's saying is that school is school and he doesn't really get to hang out with his friends, but I still think that's invalid because he can hang out with his friends on days that he doesn't have rugby or something. Also, I find time to hang out with my friends on the weekends, so why can't he? I really can't tell if I'm being crazy, and I'm not looking to use anyone's opinions as examples in our fights or anything, I just want to know if this fight is worth fighting for.
Can someone PLEASE tell me if I'M being crazy?
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You're not crazy but you're possibly being too demanding of his time. It's not healthy in a relationship to say or think things like "I can do this, why can't you?". If you can't like him for who he is and the choices he makes, then don't be with him.
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