Do you date to get to know someone and then declare a relationship?
Or do you get to know someone then date/declare a relationship?
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For me dating just means I like a girl ever-so-slightly, and hopefully she likes me at least ever-so-slightly. The dating is to grow our feelings toward each other, and kind of test our compatibility, but most of all, just have fun.
I never do that kind of build a crush on someone and then ask them on a date. That never worked for me, and it makes it nerve-wracking to simply go up to the person and ask them out.
So I just casually ask people out on a date, and the date itself is kind of a casual affair, not some super romantic courtship thing. I save those moves for later, and only if these casual kind of dates go well.1