I have been in 3 serious relationships. Talked about marriage, kids, commitment, and love. My exes was always the first to say "I love you". I never did out of fear that they didn't feel the same way. Later turns out i was right. My exes confessed that they were never in love with me, even though we talked about the possibility of getting engaged.
I was just wondering, if you're in a serious relationship with your SO, do you mean it when you say you love them? Or you just say it because you know it's expected?
- I mean it when I say "I love you"Vote A
- I don't really mean it, I just said it because I know it's expectedVote B
- I do mean it, but won't say it often because it'll lose its meaningVote C
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I would never tell a guy i loved him if i didn't genuinely love him. I would be lying to him as well as to myself. I'd never say it just because it's expected of me. Besides, when you tell someone you love them, but don't mean it you are just deceiving them by giving them false hope to cling to... that's quite cruel0