Is attraction immediate? Or can it be built with time and bonding? If a person is sure they want you in every way but you're a bit more hesitant... do you wait and see if you can reach their level of infatuation or do you break it off so they can find a better suited partner? (and so can you)
If you meet a person who seems to be perfect for you, but you don't really feel that attracted to them, do you let them go or wait and see?
What Guys Said 3
I believe it can be built. The more time you spend talking to one another, the more you share and so the more you see what you have in common.2
What Girls Said 2
For me attraction is immediate and for a guy to be "perfect" in my eyes I'd need to feel that spark otherwise I have no motivation to progress things. I've never suddenly felt a spark where I didn't initially.1
No I don't wait and see. I know almost right from the start if if it could lead to something more or not. Attraction doesn't develop over time for me it's there right away or never at all.1
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