my ex boyfriend was jealous of every guy i know and it was annoying, and now the guy i'm in love with , seems to never get jealous not even a little bit and it's even more annoying.
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I thought I was never going to be the jealous type until I dated a girl who just received male attention left and right. She even received an expensive necklace as a gift while we were living together.
I couldn't go to places with her without guys constantly trying to pick her up, sometimes laying their hands on her hips, things of that sort. I got kind of tired of putting my arm around her and telling them that she's taken.
I didn't get jealous about her guy friends though. I met them and they're nice people, just all the guys trying to blatantly pick her up.
That insecurity on my part is what kind of brought our relationship to an end though. Since then, I've just kind of realized you can't keep your lover locked in a cage 24/7. I have to be appealing enough to her and build up trust in her, and her in me, to keep a healthy relationship.
So I learned it the really hard way, but I never allowed myself to become jealous since in subsequent relationships.0
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