I've been talking to this girl for a while and we've gone on 2 dates. We go to different high schools in the area. I really like her and we have a lot in common. How can I show her I like her and would like to have a relationship with her?
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Instead of trying to express her you feel (this can often end up being like a one-sided monologue, and can be a bit risky), try to kind of show it, and elevate how she feels about you.
For example, on the third date, try to hold her hand (not forcefully, just reach for it the next time you two feel kind of connected and together, like laughing together or just talking about something kind of intimate).
Snuggle up, hug, kiss if you find the right kind of moment.
One of the things I think most people mistake is this idea that expressing how you like/love someone is magically going to make them fall in love with you, e. g. It unfortunately doesn't work that way -- usually the only time that doesn't have a negative effect is if the other already felt exactly the same way. So it's kind of a risk to express your feelings directly, often better to just kind of elevate the intimacy of your relationship as you go out with her.0