I'm 21. I met a guy online a month ago; we texted a bit; he goes to another college.. We've been hooking up a few times since then and plan to get together this week once or twice since our schedules allow it. I have never tried suggesting more than hanging out and sex because that's what I like and want.. But I'm starting to fit the description of "catching feelings" for him. I fantasize about him, I crave him, I could spend all day in bed with him if I could, his face just makes my heart flutter... Aaaand I have no idea how he feels.
I had this other guy whos 25 ask me out to dinner tonight (we also met online... I'm introverted and shy what can I say?) he's also very nice looking, Italian... Gorgeous guy really.. But I don't know part of me is asking why since I'm hooking up with this other dude who I now have feelings for. I mean, I guess if the other guy doesn't feel the same then it would be best for me to move on. This new guy is driving an hour to take me out, he seems very sweet.. Do I still go?
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you can go on a date with the guy i guess but if you have feeligns for the other guy it sort of seems like a waste of your time and the guy's time.
but you could go on the one date and if this guy doesn't sort of engender feelings like the guy you're hooking up with does then that could be the end of that4