Okay so in general, you're dating a girl... Would you rather her be pretty forward and honest when it comes to her thoughts and feelings or more reserved? I'm shy but I tend to be more forward as I hate playing games and not knowing where I stand with people.
Somewhere in between
And you are? I'm a GuyGirls can not vote on this poll
I like to have all the cards on the table. Relationships are no place for games. You just need to manage your feelings and expectations, is all. Like if you're dating for a week and you tell someone you're head over heels in love with them, that might be a little intense. It's not wrong that you told them per se, it's just kind of alarming to most people to see someone catch feelings so hard, so quick. In that scenario, it's more likely that you need to cool your own jets a little and keep things in perspective. I wouldn't be freaked out by her saying she loved me the first week because she was honest, it'd be because it would be a red flag to me that she might be a little too committed, too soon, and not in control of her emotions, and maybe has a touch of the crazy, haha. But as a general rule, I'd endorse open communication.
I voted yes. But about the feelings, not the thoughts. I don't like playing games either but I don't want her to be too forward about her brutally honest thoughts about things. Like saying something I like is stupid. But I do want to know how she feels about me, That is huge for me.
This is literally one of the only ways to get across to me... Not only am I oblivious to your hints, but I am a very very shy person and I've been heartbroken many times... So I'm not gonna waste my time playing guessing games and putting myself out there... So if she isn't open and straightforward she's gonna have to miss me with that shit...
Current situation; I like this girl and have quite heavily hinted it - I'm presuming she knows now. Without directing asking, I want her to show me that she does. At the moment it's mixed. Tell the person the truth, so that they can either get together with you, or go and continue their life and stop trying to get you.
LOL You're asking if a guy likes there girl to be FORWARD! that's one of the most annoying things about girls. XD Anyway, my emotions kind of work like a females and I understand how you guys feel but I vote YEP