I don't reply to them or anything, but should I tell him? I know it's going to make him really angry, since he's a bit possessive and jealous when it comes to these things.
Most Helpful Guy
Tell him as soon as possible. He should know. U need to be open. I think u are late already for never had told him about it and thats worst part for a guy like that. If u like him and u can work things out with a possessive and jealous guy great but if u afraid about him u shoulnd be on this relationship...
And by the way u can block number and never receive calls or text from them. If u opt for block and dont tell do it fast before some how he glances ur selfphone and finds out and say u cheating...
GL BH !0
Most Helpful Girl
Why did you give them your number in the first place?
I believe it is very childish and "I'm still not out of high school" to try and get the message to a romantic partner, or a potential future partner, that you are so attractive and popular, by bringing other girls/guys into it. It is a complete relationship destroyer. Definitely a NO NO from me.
However, the best way to do this is to tell them that you get special comments from other females. Don't get me wrong, I don't mean the lesbian way, even though that would work too if you just wanted him to know you are sexually attractive and popular. Like you could say that other female friends or even people you just run into, try to set you up with single guys they know, such as their friends or family, or their boyfriend's bachelor friend, or their sons in the case of elder ladies. It keeps up the "people see me as hot and nice and I'm popular" without actually getting him jealous. Although I'm not too favorable if these techniques anyway, I think they are too cheap and not fighting fair. I definitely would think worse of my partners if they did it. I'm not a very secure person, and I would like to feel like I'm the dream come true for my partner, someone unique to him and special, not just one of a crowd.
Or if you want to magnify your strong points by talking about them, you could always mention your close girlfriends and like say: The other day we went out shopping with the girls and when we all came out of the dressing room all the girls envied my..." Fill in the blank with whichever feature you are trying to magnify. Such as: my figure, legs, complexion, my beautiful eye color, etc.
Or you can even go through your sister or cousins. Like ever since we were kids my sister always thought my... was great and she always wanted to be like me and she still does.
And so on and so forth. See what I'm saying? You can get very creative with this. It doesn't have to just be your physical beauties. You can even use it to mention your character strengths. Just be careful not to overdo it and look fake. This way you will get him to notice your unique and amazing features, and still not be a turn off by making him jealous.
This was a very good question. I'm glad you asked. And I hope lots of girls AND boys read it too. Because it is a sad and bitter social thing that goes on in our culture, and it makes me sad to see it hurting our youth and their relationships.0