I go to the Uni. of Nevada, Reno (UNR). Guys never seem to take interest by approaching me or getting my phone number. What are some reasons guys do not approach an attractive girl and actually get her number?
Most Helpful Guy
Unless a guy is supremely confident, realistically he's not going to come over.
It's a huge risk for a guy to walk over to a girl and ask her out. He could be laughed at and ridiculed and it could pretty much ruin his day - especially with how girls talk and share with their friends and how quickly something like that could spread around Facebook etc.
Subtle hints don't work, strong hints don't work, any hint, unless you're inviting him into your bedroom - won't work.
Straight up tell a guy you like. Just ask him out somewhere - a bar, coffee, a film - wherever. Don't wait for them to approach you.
If a guy doesn't know that you are an option (relationship-wise) he'll choose from the options that he is sure of.
Example: I love BBQ ribs, I also love pizza. If BBQ ribs isn't an option, I'll have pizza.
He has to know that you're an option and hinting doesn't tell him that. He'll probably understand it (unless he's really unobservant) but he won't do anything about it, just in case he is wrong.2
Most Helpful Girl
Simple. They are chickenshit.0