So my boyfriend and I have been together for pshh 9 months now. And well, I love him a lot and we argue a lot sometimes, I mean like we argue over silly things. Mainly my fault, im very sensitive in some respects.
I was bullied for three years of high school and most of primary school. This has had an effect on me. I'm highly insecure sometimes and need help of other for that, My boyfriend provides this help, to make sure i don't fall apart, The bullying got to me so much i still haven't fully recovered. He finds another girl, Attractive so Obviously I'm getting anxious and I could use so reassurance.
How do I know that she isn't a 'threat' ?
How do I stop being so silly with it all?
Is it normal to argue a lot?
What do I do?
Does this mean he will leave?
I'm being paranoid aren't I?
Please be completly honest
Most Helpful Guy
I think you should calm down0
Most Helpful Girl
Get over yourself and if you trust and love him just relax and enjoy the relationship. What's the point in stressing yourself out over things you don't even know are a thing? I've struggled with amxiety and I've realised it can destroy yo. Do go living your life in pain because you only get one so just trust him and love him and I'm sure you'll see the difference in the relationships. I was the same in my relationship until I chilled out and just began to enjoy it and now it's been over a year since we even argued. If he lives you and you love him then just embrace that and don't care about anybody else :)0