I am a 20 yr old bisexual female. I was born with something called tuberous breast deformity which caused my breasts to come in horribly misshapen. I had corrective surgery and they look much better but still terrible. They are now saggy, uneven, oversized, and horribly scarred. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years who knew me before the surgery. I never let him see them before I had the procedure at age 17 and even he admitted that they look bad. I'm scared to get back into the dating scene.:( could you love a woman with hideous boobs?
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To be honest I'd have to assess it for myself ( I'm not asking for you to show me )
What I mean is attraction is subjective, what one person sees as ugly could be seen as beautiful to another.
I don't really care generally speaking.
But then I tend not to date bi girls...1
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u know, to some people, scars like that are attractive cuz they show the person went through something and endured. its so hard dealing with deformities and blemishes. to be able to share that with someone who cares about u, i can't think of anything more intimate. dont count urself out of the dating field, i think u can find plenty of good men who can love all of u. since ur in the 18-24 age range, id recommend giving guys 22+ a shot. I've noticed theyre much more mature. and i really recommend meeting guys at places that have good vibes, like volunteer events or cultural awareness. those guys are absolute sweethearts and better know whats important in life. not all guys are like ur ex. that was just insensitive to be blunt like that knowing ur insecurity.
hang in there girl. i dont know what its like for u, but ur ahead of me by even having a guy be with u for that long. that means there's something special about u.0