I m probably or definitely over-analyzing the situation. But I noticed whenever I talked, this guy would stare at me. Like, not in a mean way, just a look. Is that normal or... maybe he found me annoying haha.
There was a brief period of time where him and I looking at each other and smiling. It was really awkward...
I was also sitting across from him at a table. He said he had long arms, and I said I did too. Then he reached across the table and put his hand on my shoulder, claiming that his arms were longer. Then, I put my hand on his shoulder, and claimed that mine longer. Was that flirting or?
Okay, then eleven days later, I decided to text him. This is what happened-
What do his texts mean?
This is going to be long-
Me: is this Jake?
Him: Maybe who'ss asking?
Me: Ashley 😂😂
Him: okkkkkkk and what do u want?
Him (again): okkkkkkk and what do u want?
Me: I guess wanted I to say hi?
Me: I m glad you re not some sort of creep..
Obviously, his texts were rude and icy. I was super hurt by this and stopped liking him immediately.
A couple hours later, he apologized for being a jerk to me. Then we texted for awhile and he said that only acted like that because he doesn t like his number being given out. Which is understandable... I suppose.
Here s a snippet of our conversation from yesterday-
Him: Sorry if i sounded like a jerk it s just i get super defensive when people i dont know text me cuz ik my friends have given my number to random people so its like who are you what do you want.
Me: Yeah, I understand. I should ve for your number instead of my friend for it. But you seemed really cool and I was nervous.. so yeah..
Him: I m not cool, I m a dork trust me.
Me: I m a dork too, so I guess we ll get along well?
Him: lol ok
We texted for like an hour after. He was being pretty nice and responded to my texts quickly.
What does all of this mean?
Does he like me or hate me?
What Guys Said 1
" Was that flirting or? " that's all depending on how you and him "took it". But yeah it could have been flirting (I didn't see it in person so I have no idea)
It means that he probably likes you (if that was "real" flirting up there)0
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