Me and him have been together for a year and a half. He is very caring, we get along great but one thing is that he doesn't take me out anywhere, not saying he has to pay but basically we spend no quality time outside. I always felt it's because he works full time and goes to school so he's always tired and also he is paying for school out of pocket. Those are the only things I can think of. When ever I bring it up why we don't go out he gets defensive. I am starting to get a little bored. should I break up with him?
Most Helpful Guy
Some people prefer to spend quality time inside, at home. Going out can be expensive.
" I always felt it's because he works full time and goes to school so he's always tired and also he is paying for school out of pocket. " explains a lot.
If you prefer to be high maintenance, he just can't afford you.0
Most Helpful Girl
My guy is like this too.
But this is after being together for almost 10 years.
I wouldn't break up with him, but I'd definitely start going out with friends.
If he bitches about it, then tell him "What am I supposed to do stay home like an old lady? You don't take me out."
I do say that to my guy, and now he wants to take me out more than ever.
Someone has no room to complain if they aren't pleasing their partner.
It's called making an excuse.