I want to ask any introverted guys out there if they felt like it was more difficult forming a relationship with an introverted female. Girls are welcome to answer :D
Most Helpful Guy
I'm very introverted and shy naturally and oddly I attracted extroverted girls, often with them asking me on a date initially (till I could work up the nerve to become the aggressor).
My very first girlfriend was very extroverted and attracted to me on the basis (or at least according to her) that I was such a gentleman and the only guy who wasn't trying to get in her pants, even though I'm not (was just too shy back then to reveal that I'm not and was also looking to get in her pants).
There were only a couple of times I dated introverted girls (one both shy and introverted, one not and simply preferring solitude) and I found it rather difficult because with the first because it made me have to be more of an aggressor and pursuer than I normally am. There were also times when we argued where the girl would want some time alone which is uncharacteristic (usually it was me who wanted time alone with the girl pursuing me and trying to get me to talk to her, not the other way around).
So basically it flipped all the rules around. However, my first true love was this kind of introverted type, and it made me step up and have to be more confident and aggressive and assertive than I ever was before, and I also had to push her sometimes to go out since she wanted to spend most of our dates at home.
It was weird, to say the least, since it made me have to behave more like an extrovert around her to avoid just doing things like playing video games together or just going to a karaoke box with just me and her (she loved to sing and was a great singer but only in front of me, not in front of a bunch of other friends).
But it was very special, a kind of dating dynamic that I never had again with other women. The second one who wasn't so shy but merely introverted was pretty weird, working at a flower shop. She wanted to get serious faster than ever before, and she had an odd thing where she was into astrology (I caught her looking up my star sign, Taurus, with hers, Aries, to see how "marriage-compatible" we were). It turned into a long distance thing after a couple of months before I could find out more, but she was one of the weirdest girls I ever dated, always making it impossible for me to read what she's thinking, even in the bedroom, while she kind of stuck around the entire time.0
Most Helpful Girl
It depends. Some guys like introverted girls, while others not so much.0