We've gone out a few times and I thought we hit it off. We made plans for Saturday night. I texted him Friday just to see if we're still on but he didn't text me back. I texted him Saturday night to see if we were still on and he didn't text me back.
Honestly, why make plans if you had no intention of going? I may not be a guy but I thought guys were more direct than girls? Like if you didn't want to meet up then you'd give an obscure reply like "we'll see" and not actually give me a day and time.
I guess I want to know why you do this or what men think when they do this?
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A very good possibility is that he kept you around as a secondary option. I do this to women all the time.
I know it sounds bad... but I just don't care about replying. What am I thinking when I do this? Well a lot of women always have several men interested in them, or at least access to males (i. e. Tinder), so I don't care because I know these women can just find another.
One more thing... I choose not to be direct because pretty much none of the women I have been with were ever direct with me. Perhaps I am just a product of society.1