We've gone out a few times and I thought we hit it off. We made plans for Saturday night. I texted him Friday just to see if we're still on but he didn't text me back. I texted him Saturday night to see if we were still on and he didn't text me back. Honestly, why make plans if you had no intention of going? I may not be a guy but I thought guys were more direct than girls? Like if you didn't want to meet up then you'd give an obscure reply like "we'll see" and not actually give me a day and time. I guess I want to know why you do this or what men think when they do this?
This is probably just the angry girl in me talking but would it be wrong of me to call him out on his bullshit? Or should I just leave him be?
A very good possibility is that he kept you around as a secondary option. I do this to women all the time.
I know it sounds bad... but I just don't care about replying. What am I thinking when I do this? Well a lot of women always have several men interested in them, or at least access to males (i. e. Tinder), so I don't care because I know these women can just find another.
One more thing... I choose not to be direct because pretty much none of the women I have been with were ever direct with me. Perhaps I am just a product of society.
I've had a woman do this to me. Found out after some time that she was keeping her options open. Playing the field or whatever you want to call it. Didn't really want me but didn't want me to go anywhere. Maybe liked the attention or maybe I would've done until someone better came along.
Because we get insecure about ourselves or change our mind about the person we are about to hang out with. I think they make plans and intent to go out but after they are made something changes for them. Or if they are real jerks they will do it so you get the hint that hey don't want to be with you and to leave them alone. Which I don't agree with at all.
That's weird maybe something happened. Or he's just a pussy and not worth it then. We are more direct than girls. We don't (or at least me and the people I. know) do the whole not answer the phone, ignoring, and blowing off thing. So I don't know maybe something legit happened. Otherwise he's not worth it anyway
He has a more appealing option but he isn't sure if it's going to work out so he wants to try to keep you as an option for as long as he can. Girls have done this to me, it sucks but there's nothing you can do except walk away.