In my opinion if a guy asks me on a date it would a nice gesture if he offered to pay, however I have no issues splitting the bill and i'd never leave my house without my purse. I also wouldn't go somewhere out of my means, I think it's important for both parties to go somewhere in their price range..
What are your thoughts?
Most Helpful Guy
it seems like the ideal scenario these days would be:
-guy asks girl out, implying that he will pay since he is asking her out
-girl appreciates the gesture but will insist that she can pay for herself
-guy really appreciates girl's thoughtfulness and insists that it will be his pleasure
-girl is flattered and allows him to pay for them both and will get the bill next time8
Most Helpful Girl
I'm the sort of person who wouldn't assume he should pay. I'd offer to pay half. If he insisted that he would like to pay, then I'd insist that I pay the next time.
Lots of guys seem to have the impression girl's use guys for what they can offer them... ", financially" so I wouldn't want anyone to have that negative opinion of me. I never seek financial gain from anyone.
I'm a kind person but I'd never allow anyone to take advantage of my kindness, and I'd never ever take adavantage of someone else's kindness either.1