Should I message him or just wait a few minutes?
Me and this guy planned a date night tonight at 7pm, it's 6pm right now and I haven't heard from him all day. Should I text him and ask if we're still on for tonight or wait?
He replied saying "Idk it's up to you." What the hell do I say to that? He doesn't seem too excited to spend time with me lol Most Helpful Guy
Just give a quick text to say that you are excited for the date and ask if he is excited too. That way it doesn't seem like you are needy and just have a positive energy.
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If I were you, I would text him. It won't hurt to text him.
Just wait for 7pm then if he is still a no show , be done with him. I think if a guy genuinely cares and respects you that he wouldn't forget. Also, if you mean something to him and he had to cancel, he would at least notify you.
"Idk It's up to you" it's really not a good answer he gave you. He doesn't sound excited at all, sorry to say. I'd leave it at that and move on.
Just be like "are we still meeting up?"
I wouldn't bother replying to that. He doesn't sound too keen. Whenever I'm asked out and I agree to go I will reply enthusiastically.
"Idk it's up to you"
Really? That would be a red flag. NEXT!
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